Ask a man what he wants in a woman and you’ll probably get a blank stare…
That or he’ll ramble off a bunch of things that he THINKS he wants in a woman but you’ll probably see him dating or even marrying someone who is completely different.
Why?
Because most men don’t have any idea what their hearts truly desire… but they’ll know it when they see it.
If you want to get into a committed relationship that lasts, you need to understand what men really want in their hearts.
After working with thousands of both men and women, I’ve discovered what works with men when it comes to why they get into committed, lasting relationships with women.
Here are five of those things:
1. He Wants a Woman Who Can Fit Into His Life
If you want a man to see you as someone he can be with in the far distant future, you need to fit into his life somehow.
You don’t have to share commonalities with him.
You don’t have to give up your life for his.
He just needs to see the two of you together in the far distant future. He needs to see that you are someone he could be with on his journey towards whatever it is that he’s moving towards in his life.
If he doesn’t see himself being with you in the far distant future, he’ll probably only see you as something short term.
2. He Wants a Woman Who He Can Feel Good Around
According to the Relationship Research Institute, your relationship has an extremely high chance of falling apart if your partner experiences too many negative experiences when he’s around you.
Arguing, fighting all the time, or smothering him can destroy your relationship in a very short period of time.
On the other hand, if he experiences lots of positive emotions around you, he’ll eventually begin to feel like you’re the perfect woman for him.
3. He Wants a Woman Who Loves Him For Who He Is
We all want to be loved and accepted for who we are. Yet, I receive emails from women all the time in our community who say they’re with a man who would be perfect IF he’d just change a few things about himself.
Men don’t want you to fall in love with their potential… they want you to fall in love with who they are.
And if you can’t love and accept a man for who he is right now, you’re better off going out and finding a new man who you can accept and love for who he is.
4. He Wants a Woman Who Has Her Own Life
I’ve probably talked to hundreds of men by now about what they are looking for in a woman.
Out of all the men I’ve talked to, I’ve NEVER talked to a guy who said that he wants a woman who is obsessively thinking about him all the time because she has nothing else to do with her life.
Pursue your own passions, create your own life, and make sure you keep this life once you get into a relationship. You’ll be happier, he’ll be happier, and you’re much more likely to create something that lasts.
5. He Wants a Woman Who Connects With His Heart
If you are struggling with getting a man to see you as something more than just a short-term, casual fling, then you need to learn how to connect with his heart.
This is what will make the biggest difference between you and all the other women he meets out there.
There are plenty of attractive women out there. But very few women know how to connect with a man on a deep emotional level.
If you can be the woman who connects with him in this way, he’ll immediately see you as someone he could potentially be with always.
But even if he feels this deeply about you, you could still mess things up with him…
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…
Click here to watch the video now <<
My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…
I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…
Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…
When you click the link this link right here <<
I show you what this 5 word phrase is…
I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…
And how to attract the man you want…
Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…
No matter how painful things have been in your past…
You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…
Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…
If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…
If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…
And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…
